“”It’s okay
I’m a creep and a weirdo too. We have a lot in common!”
That was the first thing I ever said to you. Although I knew you were different when I looked at your pictures I never knew this is what would happen. I never once thought you would become my everything. That you would be the only thing I think about from that point onward. I never knew I could fall so deeply in love with you.
I remember the day I first said that to you. You had commented on my only photo saying, “nice tunnels.” It was such a short and meaningless thing to say. Compared to how hard other people tried talking to me you gave almost no effort, but you were the person who stood out the most.
I frantically read your profile looking for any sort of conversation starter. I remember reading about how much you loved pez and running with that. I didn’t know much about pez though. I knew I had Star Wars ones in the attic and that was it. And believe it or not I actually googled pez so I could talk a little to you about them. I tried so hard to make sure you didn’t walk away from me. There was just something about you. I didn’t know what it was but I told myself I needed to find out.
I remember sending that first message and impatiently waiting for your reply. I was constantly checking until it appeared in my inbox. Even though you didn’t say much it made me feel so comfortable. Talking to you was so easy….and I’m sure you felt the same way because after your reply we talked nonstop for the next three days.
I only sat at my computer for those three days. Reading and replying….reading and replying. I’m usually pretty quiet but you brought out a different side of me. I had so much to say. There was never a single moment when I struggled for a response. After those three days I felt like we were already good friends and I knew somehow you’d be a constant part of my life. I knew you were here to stay. And knowing that made me so very happy.
Remember how after a few days you told me you wanted to get on voice chat through skype? I didn’t have a mic so I just listened to you speak to me. I remember how nervous I was just to hear you talk. I was shaking a little. And then I heard your voice.. I listened to you talk while I looked at your pictures on interpals. Right there was when I started falling for you. That and when you told me you wanted a daughter named knives.
We talked through skype a little more, came back here, then we moved away from this place. Waiting on interpals became a chore and you didn’t have skype on your phone, so you suggested I get KakaoTalk and message you there. The moment I joined KakaoTalk was the true beginning of something great. Remember how we never stopped talking after that moment? We spent every waking moment chasing after each other. And when you’d sleep I’d read the conversations over and over again. That was when you really took over my life.
After we started talking on there you became all I cared about. I remember being in public places and totally lost inside my mind thinking about you…smiling and laughing to myself like a crazy person. It didn’t matter though because you made me feel so good. You made me feel things I never felt before. When I go back and look at screenshots, all of my favoites are from Kakao…We were so into each other and not hiding it well…but at the time it felt like we were doing a good job, didn’t it?
Then came WeChat. You said it was better, you said it had video, you wanted to use it to get on video with me. When you told me you wanted to be on video chat, I got so scared. Here is a little secret, I had WeChat the moment you told me to get it. I lied to you and said it didn’t work because I was so scared to be on video with you. It took me a couple days to work up the courage to go for it. And then I did. And then we did. And then my life really changed.
I remember you saying you were going to call me. I basically crapped my pants. I was so worried about so many things. Maybe you’ll hate my smile…maybe you won’t like my voice…maybe I do things I don’t realize that are extremely unattractive…My mind was going so fast until my phone rang and you were on the other end. I answered the call and everything stopped.
There you were laying on your stomach on your bed and smiling at me. It wasn’t just pictures, it was really you. I could see everything about you. The way your face crinkled when you smiled. The way you move your body. Even just the way you breathe…Before that I only imagined things about you, then in an instant I knew all the answers. Remember how on that first call we didn’t speak much at all? I don’t think I said anything…I just smiled and said goodye after about 20 minutes. It was so creepy of me but it was one of the greatest moments in my life.
You know, when I first laid my eyes on you I really fell in love with you. I knew I needed you in my life and I started dedicating so much of myself to you. After that first call, everything I did was for you.
Remember how after that first time we never really went a day without being on video? And remember how the calls got longer and longer until they never really ended? I remember going to sleep looking at you, then waking up in the morning and seeing you were still there. And that felt so great…I loved having you as the first thing I seen when I wake up.
After that everything becomes a happy blur for me. From sneakily telling each other “I love you” by disgusing it as trying to make hearts fall in WeChat….because you have to mean it for it to work! Then actually saying it to each other over video and meaning it so much. All the laughs and good feelings you gave me. The times we cried and grew so much closer. Constantly learning more about who you are and where you came from…and I shouldn’t say it’s a blur because I remember every little bit. (…aside from you blowing me a kiss when saying bye on video. I really wish I would have seen that..) It’s a blur because everything just happened. Everything fell so perfectly into place. It took no effort to get to where we are now…it was just meant to happen this way.
Since the beginning everything has been so great. Sure we had our fair share of fights, but each fight only brought us closer. We have learned so much about ourselves from each other, and we are still learning more every day. We compliment each other so well and push the other to be a better person.
With all that I’ve said here, all that we’ve done together, here I am sitting 3 feet away from you typing this. I’ve been physically with you for months and I’m going to stay with you for months…years…forever. Stay with you simply because I don’t ever want to be without you.
I need you so much, Jannah.
I don’t want to see my life without you in it.
At this point I can’t even picture a life without you in it..
..I don’t want to picture it..
You know babe,
Can you promise me something?
…promise me something that will ease my worries a little bit?..
Okay. Well.
What I need you to do is promise me that you’ll stop reading this and come upstairs right now. I have something I want to show you.
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What are you waiting for?
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When you read that I wanted you to promise me something, you said “okay,” in your head.
I felt it.
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I was up there with tears in my eyes and a ring in my pocket when suddenly I heard her feet come slamming up the stairs. She came running into my arms, eyes swelling with tears, asking me what this was all about. I told her she has given me the best days of my life so far and I don’t ever want this to stop. I got down on one knee and asked her to spend her life with me. I asked her to be my wife.
…she said yes.